Sweet or Savory?

I always thought I was sweet, but lately I’m wondering if I’m more savory. We are ultimately all complex in temperament and taste so not singular in any one direction, but I’m talking about my basic, fundamental, flavor.

I’d be insincere if I said I was never bitter or sour. For sure there are times when I’m feeling particularly astringent and have a bite, but those are just fleeting moments. I’m genuine in my forgiveness and much prefer to let it go.

I admire those of you that live life to it’s spicy fullest. You bring a touch of heat to all of us and it’s fun and thrilling. But that’s not me. Oh, I love some heat culinarily, but my hypothesis is that I’m using spice in my diet in compensation for my relatively mild profile.

I’ve been known to be a bit salty. My editor a.k.a. mom once suggested I might want to tone down all the cussing in my writing. If I was truly salty I would have told her off, but I didn’t. I thoughtfully considered her point. The why behind her suggestion. I’ll still get salty at times, but a little bit of salt goes a long way. No need to be heavy handed with it.

Which brings us to sweet. This is definitely my comfort zone. Not candy sweet. But that kind of sticky pastry sweet that melts in your mouth and goes directly to your ass sweet (peppering in some salt just for fun here). This is my “goto” both when needing to be comforted and wanting to comfort. There is something warm and delicious about a sweet moment with a loved one.

But lately I’m feeling my true center is more savory than pure sweet. Like a stuffed french toast with a smokey cheese center. Wonderfully sweet on the outside, but offering something more interesting and multi-dimensional on the inside. A bit of umami. Tickling the taste buds with nuanced curiosity. Pleasant but unpredictable. Sometimes paired with a touch of heat, a pinch of salt, or even some sours or bitters.

I’m not sure but I think this is the result of aging well. Not exactly fermented. Perhaps cured? I’m not sure, but on the whole I like my new flavor.

Be well,



  1. Catherine says:

    “pleasant but unpredictable” that would be an accurate description for myself too.

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  2. gigglingfattie says:

    I am definitely more of a savoury than a sweet person! That stuffed french toast sounds AMAZING

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    1. Monty Vern says:

      It really does doesn’t it? 😍


      1. gigglingfattie says:



  3. Which one am I? I feel like I’m a balanced meal. However, as I mature, I actually feel like I’m turning sweeter. Not because life is rosy, but in an attempt to fight the burning fire around me.

    “Wonderfully sweet on the outside, but offering something more interesting and multi-dimensional on the inside.” I could not help but wince at that one. Why is it that we assume good/sweet is boring? Then we have people trying to be more interesting and turning into assholes. I believe we should appreciate the sweet pastry a bit more. I know I do.

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    1. Monty Vern says:

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts and sorry to make you wince. Having studied flavor/taste scientifically sweetness is one-dimensional technically. Its a wonderful dimension though and life without it would truly be boring!

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